Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
How do you deal with your difficult child's insults, etc?
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 493651" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>That was a great example. Much like what I go through. Try, make a mistake sometimes, do better other times etc. Of course there ARE always consequences to every action. In the general sense. But in terms of a punishment consequence... yes, in so many situations it can just lead to more problems. But to never have a punishment, that would set a child up for thinking that there is no punishment in the world. It would be nice to think the method worked so well that they would never have to have a punishment but there will be traffic tickets, detentions, etc. and probably not any way to negotiate those. We talked earlier about picking those really significant things that need a punishment kind of consequence. (Q will actually be able to tell you that there are good consequences and bad consequences to what we do, lol...we have worked on this for a long time and revised over the years, lol...). I do think safety and violence need some form of restitution along with problem solving and skill building. Just MHO. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Malika, J is in good hands.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 493651, member: 12886"] That was a great example. Much like what I go through. Try, make a mistake sometimes, do better other times etc. Of course there ARE always consequences to every action. In the general sense. But in terms of a punishment consequence... yes, in so many situations it can just lead to more problems. But to never have a punishment, that would set a child up for thinking that there is no punishment in the world. It would be nice to think the method worked so well that they would never have to have a punishment but there will be traffic tickets, detentions, etc. and probably not any way to negotiate those. We talked earlier about picking those really significant things that need a punishment kind of consequence. (Q will actually be able to tell you that there are good consequences and bad consequences to what we do, lol...we have worked on this for a long time and revised over the years, lol...). I do think safety and violence need some form of restitution along with problem solving and skill building. Just MHO. Malika, J is in good hands. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
How do you deal with your difficult child's insults, etc?
Top