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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 536547"><p>Have you found a pattern to the CAUSE of the behavior in the first place? Can you tell when she is starting to get worked up so you can try to problem solve with her before it gets that bad? For difficult child 1, that was the key. I had to learn to read his cues. Restraining difficult child 1 is a huge no-no (sensory issues and PTSD). He is also one that would follow us when in the middle of a rage. It took a long time for ME to recognize his signs so I could teach him how to 1)recognize them himself, 2)use his words instead of actions, and 3)handle the feelings appropriately. We are still working on all three but it is getting better. I stopped punishing for rages, beyond natural consequences, because I truly believed he was unable to get control back once he got to that point. We did a lot of processing afterwards until I got better at reading his signs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 536547"] Have you found a pattern to the CAUSE of the behavior in the first place? Can you tell when she is starting to get worked up so you can try to problem solve with her before it gets that bad? For difficult child 1, that was the key. I had to learn to read his cues. Restraining difficult child 1 is a huge no-no (sensory issues and PTSD). He is also one that would follow us when in the middle of a rage. It took a long time for ME to recognize his signs so I could teach him how to 1)recognize them himself, 2)use his words instead of actions, and 3)handle the feelings appropriately. We are still working on all three but it is getting better. I stopped punishing for rages, beyond natural consequences, because I truly believed he was unable to get control back once he got to that point. We did a lot of processing afterwards until I got better at reading his signs. [/QUOTE]
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