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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 41029" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>k-</p><p>I too used to hate to come home. home meant my difficult child and my (now ex) would be there to torture me with their crap while I was trying to solve everything and keep the mood pleasant.</p><p>it was exhausting. </p><p></p><p>I finally went with them to counseling and when they both refused to use the help the pscyhologist offered, I went without them til I realized what I had to do to help my own life get better. </p><p></p><p>for me it meant divorce. for me it meant ant going to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). </p><p>for you it may mean something else. go to counseling with or without them. get some ideas and suggestions for new ways to do things. the way it is now is not good for you.</p><p></p><p>I never let myself be sick while they lived here. it made them worse. the one time I had to lie down with the flu...they both screamed at me that now what are they going to do?? I was tired of being everything to everyone else and nothing to me. I am not the entertainment director. if I am sick, I am sick.</p><p></p><p>take care of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 41029, member: 97"] k- I too used to hate to come home. home meant my difficult child and my (now ex) would be there to torture me with their crap while I was trying to solve everything and keep the mood pleasant. it was exhausting. I finally went with them to counseling and when they both refused to use the help the pscyhologist offered, I went without them til I realized what I had to do to help my own life get better. for me it meant divorce. for me it meant ant going to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). for you it may mean something else. go to counseling with or without them. get some ideas and suggestions for new ways to do things. the way it is now is not good for you. I never let myself be sick while they lived here. it made them worse. the one time I had to lie down with the flu...they both screamed at me that now what are they going to do?? I was tired of being everything to everyone else and nothing to me. I am not the entertainment director. if I am sick, I am sick. take care of you. [/QUOTE]
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