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how much to ''help'' grown kids????
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 444600" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm more in favor of not helping grown children who make poor choices. She obviously picked a very poor partner and he got her pregnant. Ok, for the first time. But she got pregnant again? Um, wait. And now AGAIN? And she can't pay her bills? </p><p></p><p>I put this on her as well as him. She will never learn to stand on her own if you pick her up. And I'm not sure she will stop getting pregnant either. She clearly can not afford three babies. If this were me, maybe I'd let her move back in without him, if she paid rent and didn't go out and party at night, but I wouldn't pay her lot rent. That is her responsibility. Ditto for her electric bill and other things surrounding her house. </p><p></p><p>SAHD sounds absolutely useless. I wouldn't help HIM at all...or anything that would benefit him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 444600, member: 1550"] I'm more in favor of not helping grown children who make poor choices. She obviously picked a very poor partner and he got her pregnant. Ok, for the first time. But she got pregnant again? Um, wait. And now AGAIN? And she can't pay her bills? I put this on her as well as him. She will never learn to stand on her own if you pick her up. And I'm not sure she will stop getting pregnant either. She clearly can not afford three babies. If this were me, maybe I'd let her move back in without him, if she paid rent and didn't go out and party at night, but I wouldn't pay her lot rent. That is her responsibility. Ditto for her electric bill and other things surrounding her house. SAHD sounds absolutely useless. I wouldn't help HIM at all...or anything that would benefit him. [/QUOTE]
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