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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 212233" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Jennifer,</p><p></p><p>I think that MB's advice, combined with Heather and Jo's mind set is the right one to take.</p><p></p><p>Happiness truly IS the best revenge.</p><p></p><p>Have you ever heard the expression, "Kill 'em with kindness"?</p><p>If you're unflappable and very polite and sweet, and behave like a lady, the ex WILL look like a monster raving loony. Everyone will understand why boyfriend is with you and no longer with her.</p><p></p><p>If you show any negativity, or retaliate, or mutter under your breath or even roll your eyes...you will look like the jealous, insecure girlfriend. Even if you're feeling jealous and insecure, don't let her see it. </p><p></p><p>My husband's ex-W is also a monster raving loony. A few years ago, she came banging on my door ranting and raving that I had her stuff locked away in my house and was keeping it from her. I let her in, calmly explained that her things were in a small pile by the front door and she was welcome to take them away. I was sweet as the proverbial pie. From that moment, she has been scared silly of me. (Well there was also the time I called the police and had her hauled away when she was making a violent scene on my lawn, but you get the idea...)</p><p></p><p>To someone who gets her way by making a scene and watching everyone give in to the drama, being able to stay calm, cool and collected is VERY intimidating and WILL get you the upper hand. Which is exactly where you want to be in this situation.</p><p></p><p>HUGS. You can stay calm and you will get through this.</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 212233, member: 3907"] Jennifer, I think that MB's advice, combined with Heather and Jo's mind set is the right one to take. Happiness truly IS the best revenge. Have you ever heard the expression, "Kill 'em with kindness"? If you're unflappable and very polite and sweet, and behave like a lady, the ex WILL look like a monster raving loony. Everyone will understand why boyfriend is with you and no longer with her. If you show any negativity, or retaliate, or mutter under your breath or even roll your eyes...you will look like the jealous, insecure girlfriend. Even if you're feeling jealous and insecure, don't let her see it. My husband's ex-W is also a monster raving loony. A few years ago, she came banging on my door ranting and raving that I had her stuff locked away in my house and was keeping it from her. I let her in, calmly explained that her things were in a small pile by the front door and she was welcome to take them away. I was sweet as the proverbial pie. From that moment, she has been scared silly of me. (Well there was also the time I called the police and had her hauled away when she was making a violent scene on my lawn, but you get the idea...) To someone who gets her way by making a scene and watching everyone give in to the drama, being able to stay calm, cool and collected is VERY intimidating and WILL get you the upper hand. Which is exactly where you want to be in this situation. HUGS. You can stay calm and you will get through this. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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