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How To Take Back Control From 7Yr Old/Neighbors Complaining Of His Screaming
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 613448" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>There ARE some kids who show antisocial tendencies at a young age and are on that track. We adopted one. Your son is not in a good place. But wait and see what happens as he gets older. Time will tell what is really going on. In the meantime, try hard not to think of what your neighbors, your mother, your kissing cousin, the teachers or anyone think about your child's behavior. You are not the cause of it nor can you cure it, nor could THEY if they were in your shoes (although often clueless parents think "If only he lived in MY house..."</p><p></p><p>CPS was not good to my acquaintance at first. They had to see first hand that this kid had really serious problems that had nothing to do with the parents. They had to get hit by the kid (and he was always strong) and to see him scream bloody murder and destroy things in front of them and hear him cuss like a soldier before they tried to find help for the family and the child. The police also had to be called over several times to know how to handle him (at least to calm him down). They became very helpful. Those who remained close to the family and knew the boy realized he was sick, not "bad." He actually has a very good heart, but he is very, very mentally ill...so sometimes he is unable to show it. He was removed from the house when he displayed inappropriate feelings towards his younger sister. At the time he was eleven and they had not expected that to happen (the strange feelings towards his much younger sister). Although he had not touched her thankfully, he admitted he was attracted to "young girls like my sister." For safety reasons, he was removed. </p><p></p><p>But now they say their home is peaceful with their other two children and them. He has a biological sister whom was also adopted into this family and she started out even harder than him and they thought SHE would be the problem. She has really come around and is a joy as a daughter, even though she shares this boy's genes and his unstable beginnings. She went to an outpatient treatment center for school on eyear and her entire life and attitude changed and now she is a great and loving daughter. Go figger.</p><p></p><p>You never know how your story will turn out. For this girl, now fourteen, she is just a lovebug. So it is really impossible to guess the future of any of our kids. Or any kids at all!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 613448, member: 1550"] There ARE some kids who show antisocial tendencies at a young age and are on that track. We adopted one. Your son is not in a good place. But wait and see what happens as he gets older. Time will tell what is really going on. In the meantime, try hard not to think of what your neighbors, your mother, your kissing cousin, the teachers or anyone think about your child's behavior. You are not the cause of it nor can you cure it, nor could THEY if they were in your shoes (although often clueless parents think "If only he lived in MY house..." CPS was not good to my acquaintance at first. They had to see first hand that this kid had really serious problems that had nothing to do with the parents. They had to get hit by the kid (and he was always strong) and to see him scream bloody murder and destroy things in front of them and hear him cuss like a soldier before they tried to find help for the family and the child. The police also had to be called over several times to know how to handle him (at least to calm him down). They became very helpful. Those who remained close to the family and knew the boy realized he was sick, not "bad." He actually has a very good heart, but he is very, very mentally ill...so sometimes he is unable to show it. He was removed from the house when he displayed inappropriate feelings towards his younger sister. At the time he was eleven and they had not expected that to happen (the strange feelings towards his much younger sister). Although he had not touched her thankfully, he admitted he was attracted to "young girls like my sister." For safety reasons, he was removed. But now they say their home is peaceful with their other two children and them. He has a biological sister whom was also adopted into this family and she started out even harder than him and they thought SHE would be the problem. She has really come around and is a joy as a daughter, even though she shares this boy's genes and his unstable beginnings. She went to an outpatient treatment center for school on eyear and her entire life and attitude changed and now she is a great and loving daughter. Go figger. You never know how your story will turn out. For this girl, now fourteen, she is just a lovebug. So it is really impossible to guess the future of any of our kids. Or any kids at all! [/QUOTE]
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