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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 83991" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Thanks, Marg. In my heart I know that this is something that I have to tell the therapist, because it's something I have a hard time moving on from. In his own way I know that he is now trying to do more without being asked. This incident is a real stumbling block for us. I want husband and I to be happy for the rest of our lives. </p><p></p><p>It's hard to re-examine your relationship with your husband and your kids. The way I look at it, my relationship with my kids is supposed to move to a less intimate level where I have less invested in their decisions. I don't feel the same way about my husband. My parents had a very hands off (each other) relationship in front of us kids. I always liked that husband and I were lovey-dovey, because it seemed successful. But not if it involves lying to each other.</p><p></p><p>Karen, I'm glad that you came to this realization about your marriage. You are in a really rough spot and I know it is hard. I hope you know that we are here with you, and appreciate your sharing this difficult time with us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 83991, member: 99"] Thanks, Marg. In my heart I know that this is something that I have to tell the therapist, because it's something I have a hard time moving on from. In his own way I know that he is now trying to do more without being asked. This incident is a real stumbling block for us. I want husband and I to be happy for the rest of our lives. It's hard to re-examine your relationship with your husband and your kids. The way I look at it, my relationship with my kids is supposed to move to a less intimate level where I have less invested in their decisions. I don't feel the same way about my husband. My parents had a very hands off (each other) relationship in front of us kids. I always liked that husband and I were lovey-dovey, because it seemed successful. But not if it involves lying to each other. Karen, I'm glad that you came to this realization about your marriage. You are in a really rough spot and I know it is hard. I hope you know that we are here with you, and appreciate your sharing this difficult time with us. [/QUOTE]
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