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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 320099" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I think you did good. And you're right, sometimes teaching them to stand on their own as independent adults can be a painful process for them. But it's one they have to learn.</p><p> </p><p>She's right too. She's still looking for what she needed from you growing up. Unfortunately she's not even sure of what that is..........and until she does, she's never going to find it. I have a feeling it's you'll be there for her like you were sib.......and so she expects you to drop everything to forfill the role/need she has for you. Which is unreasonable because it was developed thru a child's eyes......and the real world doesn't work that way.</p><p> </p><p>easy child had some issues with this. She eventually worked thru them once maturity helped her to be able to vocalize when she felt she missed growing up......and also helped her see that it wasn't done as a choice. It just simply had to be that way.</p><p> </p><p>One of the side effects of difficult child sibs.</p><p> </p><p>But you're still talking and that's a good thing. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I hope her kidney's straighten out. Have they tested her stones to see if diet alteration can prevent future ones? Given her tips on how to reduce the chance for infections? Very important for preg mom with kidney issues.</p><p> </p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 320099, member: 84"] I think you did good. And you're right, sometimes teaching them to stand on their own as independent adults can be a painful process for them. But it's one they have to learn. She's right too. She's still looking for what she needed from you growing up. Unfortunately she's not even sure of what that is..........and until she does, she's never going to find it. I have a feeling it's you'll be there for her like you were sib.......and so she expects you to drop everything to forfill the role/need she has for you. Which is unreasonable because it was developed thru a child's eyes......and the real world doesn't work that way. easy child had some issues with this. She eventually worked thru them once maturity helped her to be able to vocalize when she felt she missed growing up......and also helped her see that it wasn't done as a choice. It just simply had to be that way. One of the side effects of difficult child sibs. But you're still talking and that's a good thing. :) I hope her kidney's straighten out. Have they tested her stones to see if diet alteration can prevent future ones? Given her tips on how to reduce the chance for infections? Very important for preg mom with kidney issues. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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