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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 262532" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>Think I would be making a list with medical payments, mortgage/rent, food, etc. (the necessities), and let him know these are on the "pay for first list" and frankly he has had his purchase for the year....... and by the way who is in charge of the money? It's not that you can't share the responsibilities, but it sounds like he is taking "his share" first................ hope you can head him off at the pass..... and the best way you can handle it is by NOT blowing up.... remain calm at all costs, then you appear to be the reasonable one....... let him throw the fit when you calmly say there is no money to spend on his toys...... now if he has things on there like a new roof, new furnace, etc. he may have a leg to stand on, but I'm thinking its toys......</p><p> </p><p>Good luck with the discussion and REMAIN CALM!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 262532, member: 53"] Think I would be making a list with medical payments, mortgage/rent, food, etc. (the necessities), and let him know these are on the "pay for first list" and frankly he has had his purchase for the year....... and by the way who is in charge of the money? It's not that you can't share the responsibilities, but it sounds like he is taking "his share" first................ hope you can head him off at the pass..... and the best way you can handle it is by NOT blowing up.... remain calm at all costs, then you appear to be the reasonable one....... let him throw the fit when you calmly say there is no money to spend on his toys...... now if he has things on there like a new roof, new furnace, etc. he may have a leg to stand on, but I'm thinking its toys...... Good luck with the discussion and REMAIN CALM! [/QUOTE]
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