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husband Has Me Feeling Passive-Aggressive This AM
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 560769" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Sorry to hear that.</p><p></p><p>But how about being proactive and practising your detaching and not-enabling skills? I mean. He is an adult, he is free to make his choices, but you don't need to enable him to eat himself to death. He is making very poor choices with his diet. You can't change that, but you don't need to help him making those poor choices. You can go on and buy healthy food to your house. If he wants junk, he can go and buy it himself, but it is not reasonable to ask you help him self-destruct. You wouldn't go buying beer to an alcoholic. There is no reason to go buying junk to the person who seems to have eating issues. Neither can you make him eat well, but you don't have to enable his poor choices.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 560769, member: 14557"] Sorry to hear that. But how about being proactive and practising your detaching and not-enabling skills? I mean. He is an adult, he is free to make his choices, but you don't need to enable him to eat himself to death. He is making very poor choices with his diet. You can't change that, but you don't need to help him making those poor choices. You can go on and buy healthy food to your house. If he wants junk, he can go and buy it himself, but it is not reasonable to ask you help him self-destruct. You wouldn't go buying beer to an alcoholic. There is no reason to go buying junk to the person who seems to have eating issues. Neither can you make him eat well, but you don't have to enable his poor choices. [/QUOTE]
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