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husband is a JERK!! I would use another word but Im a lady.
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 252316" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Iwas reading your other thread too, about all the problems with school etc. And husband screaming at YOU because of difficult child? That's bizarre! And husband deciding he can be home schooledagain? And then husband saying he won't take him to work with him? I mean, he's husband's kid, husband clearly is making unilateral decisions about him, then expects YOU to deal with the fallout (and to billy-oh with easy child's needs) and then seems to blame you when life isn't perfect?</p><p></p><p>husband & difficult child sound very well suited to one another.</p><p></p><p>easy child needs to know that life shouldn't be like this, that when you make a choice you have to live with the consequences and deal with it yourself, not dump it onto someone else.</p><p></p><p>easy child needs to see you stand up for yourself and for your safety, yours and easy child's.</p><p></p><p>So either talk to husband, make it clear that there need to be ground rules which you will both have to stick to - or you can't stay. Let him know why and how, so he has some input into his choices. But with difficult child so unstable, things need to be sorted out and stabilised, I feel, before you can go on from here.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 252316, member: 1991"] Iwas reading your other thread too, about all the problems with school etc. And husband screaming at YOU because of difficult child? That's bizarre! And husband deciding he can be home schooledagain? And then husband saying he won't take him to work with him? I mean, he's husband's kid, husband clearly is making unilateral decisions about him, then expects YOU to deal with the fallout (and to billy-oh with easy child's needs) and then seems to blame you when life isn't perfect? husband & difficult child sound very well suited to one another. easy child needs to know that life shouldn't be like this, that when you make a choice you have to live with the consequences and deal with it yourself, not dump it onto someone else. easy child needs to see you stand up for yourself and for your safety, yours and easy child's. So either talk to husband, make it clear that there need to be ground rules which you will both have to stick to - or you can't stay. Let him know why and how, so he has some input into his choices. But with difficult child so unstable, things need to be sorted out and stabilised, I feel, before you can go on from here. Marg [/QUOTE]
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