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husband is a JERK!! I would use another word but Im a lady.
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<blockquote data-quote="eekysign" data-source="post: 252365" data-attributes="member: 6479"><p>Gwenny, you're totally in your rights to walk---lord knows, you're the only one that's in the situation, we don't know anything like all the details! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> For your son's sake, it sounds like the best decision you could make right now.</p><p></p><p>But to the rest of the community: as far as what she's posted, her husband sounds like a typical parent <u>on here</u>, people! He's yelling "at her" that <u>his son</u> is ruining <u>their family</u>. Pretty typical frustrated parent stuff, no? My mom and I have had several arguments 'bout the Sis. He doesn't want to take his unstable, possibly violent son to his place of employment? Um, which of us WOULD do that? He caved and gave his son the BIRTHDAY PRESENTS they'd bought for him. The right decision? NO. But an understandable one from someone dealing with a brand-spankin-new difficult child situation? Totally.</p><p></p><p>I'm not trying to sound harsh, I really honestly just don't understand. Gwenny's the only to make this call, obviously. But I can't see where the high levels of anger at her husband are coming from, from some posters on here. He and she are absolutely new to this. I haven't heard one thing in this whole story that hasn't happened in my house. Yelling in frustration at the wrong person? Check. Caving to difficult child demands? Check. Not being able to handle this brand-new, overwhelming situation and trying to temporarily unload onto your partner/spouse/whatever? Check!</p><p></p><p>I'm not saying any of you are wrong---he's not coming across as wonder-dad-of-the-year. I'm just saying that if the tables were turned, and gwenny's husband was the one posting here, I doubt any of you would be saying the same things. I dunno. To be fair, he sounds like most of US on any given day. I'm sure gwenny's got a billion more reasons than we know--but from what <u>we've</u> been given, I can't see why you guys feel this way. Curious a little as to where you're coming from?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="eekysign, post: 252365, member: 6479"] Gwenny, you're totally in your rights to walk---lord knows, you're the only one that's in the situation, we don't know anything like all the details! :) For your son's sake, it sounds like the best decision you could make right now. But to the rest of the community: as far as what she's posted, her husband sounds like a typical parent [U]on here[/U], people! He's yelling "at her" that [U]his son[/U] is ruining [U]their family[/U]. Pretty typical frustrated parent stuff, no? My mom and I have had several arguments 'bout the Sis. He doesn't want to take his unstable, possibly violent son to his place of employment? Um, which of us WOULD do that? He caved and gave his son the BIRTHDAY PRESENTS they'd bought for him. The right decision? NO. But an understandable one from someone dealing with a brand-spankin-new difficult child situation? Totally. I'm not trying to sound harsh, I really honestly just don't understand. Gwenny's the only to make this call, obviously. But I can't see where the high levels of anger at her husband are coming from, from some posters on here. He and she are absolutely new to this. I haven't heard one thing in this whole story that hasn't happened in my house. Yelling in frustration at the wrong person? Check. Caving to difficult child demands? Check. Not being able to handle this brand-new, overwhelming situation and trying to temporarily unload onto your partner/spouse/whatever? Check! I'm not saying any of you are wrong---he's not coming across as wonder-dad-of-the-year. I'm just saying that if the tables were turned, and gwenny's husband was the one posting here, I doubt any of you would be saying the same things. I dunno. To be fair, he sounds like most of US on any given day. I'm sure gwenny's got a billion more reasons than we know--but from what [U]we've[/U] been given, I can't see why you guys feel this way. Curious a little as to where you're coming from? [/QUOTE]
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