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husband is a JERK!! I would use another word but Im a lady.
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<blockquote data-quote="C.J." data-source="post: 252436" data-attributes="member: 1987"><p>Eeky - </p><p></p><p>I think the anger toward the husband here is his disrespect toward his wife, and that he is not communicating with her. They are supposed to be a TEAM. If together they decided to tell difficult child birthday gifts were returned, and then husband gave them to difficult child behind Gwenny's back, what does that tell difficult child? Gwenny is a B****. Gwenny made me lie to you, I'm sorry difficult child, it's Gwenny's fault.</p><p></p><p>If husband works outside the home and difficult child is homeschooled, who do you think is in charge of that? Gwenny! </p><p></p><p>Gwenny tried to re-enroll difficult child in school, but this coming week is spring break. If husband leaves for work this week, just who will be the on-site target for difficult child's venom and vitriol? He's already proven himself to be violent and threatening. Does husband sound like he's concerned for the safety and security of ALL in their home? - or just not making difficult child mad?</p><p></p><p>husband has allowed difficult child's triangulation tactics to work. It is classic "divide and conquer" at work here. </p><p></p><p>Further, if it were any number of other moms who would have posted the following: "My husband and I decided to tell difficult child we took his birthday presents back, but then after I brought him home from a temporary placement that we thought would keep him longer, without discussing it with my husband, I gave difficult child the birthday presents so he wouldn't be mad at ME...." I think many of us would have disagreed with that mom's decision to undermine the other parent in the household, and further triangulate the situation.</p><p></p><p>In this blended family situation, with a violent and threatening difficult child, Gwenny needs to look out for the needs of her son more than she needs to look out for the needs of her husband and step son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="C.J., post: 252436, member: 1987"] Eeky - I think the anger toward the husband here is his disrespect toward his wife, and that he is not communicating with her. They are supposed to be a TEAM. If together they decided to tell difficult child birthday gifts were returned, and then husband gave them to difficult child behind Gwenny's back, what does that tell difficult child? Gwenny is a B****. Gwenny made me lie to you, I'm sorry difficult child, it's Gwenny's fault. If husband works outside the home and difficult child is homeschooled, who do you think is in charge of that? Gwenny! Gwenny tried to re-enroll difficult child in school, but this coming week is spring break. If husband leaves for work this week, just who will be the on-site target for difficult child's venom and vitriol? He's already proven himself to be violent and threatening. Does husband sound like he's concerned for the safety and security of ALL in their home? - or just not making difficult child mad? husband has allowed difficult child's triangulation tactics to work. It is classic "divide and conquer" at work here. Further, if it were any number of other moms who would have posted the following: "My husband and I decided to tell difficult child we took his birthday presents back, but then after I brought him home from a temporary placement that we thought would keep him longer, without discussing it with my husband, I gave difficult child the birthday presents so he wouldn't be mad at ME...." I think many of us would have disagreed with that mom's decision to undermine the other parent in the household, and further triangulate the situation. In this blended family situation, with a violent and threatening difficult child, Gwenny needs to look out for the needs of her son more than she needs to look out for the needs of her husband and step son. [/QUOTE]
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