oh boy you guys know more about me than any therapist i've ever gone to lol. yup i'm going to let it all out this week. husband is being difficult. there i said it. ahh i feel better now. hes irritable over money, he's complaining on no time with-me intimately, he is complaining i didnt' go pumpkin picking with-the kids and him today. he is voicing all his opinions last 3 days about junk and i feel as though acting like a two year old who has been told he can't have another cookie. i said to him are you that insecure that you have to find a way to make this about you right now because you aren't getting the attention you feel you deserve?? i said easy child who is only 17 is treading lightly with me right now and shes' a kid. your a 41 year old man get a grip and grow up.