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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 403388" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>There is no magic bullet. But here there is a chance.</p><p></p><p>Two things to tell husband.</p><p></p><p>"You agreed. I went ahead because you agreed. I checked with you each step. You cannot change your mind now, without seeming to all of us, including difficult child, to be weak, pliable and not a leader."</p><p></p><p>"She needs this. If you refuse her this chance, you are throwing away your daughter. If this turns out to be a wrong decision for her, not needed, it will become obvious very, very quickly and of course she could then come home. They do not want kids in there who don't really need it after all."</p><p></p><p>And a third thing - "If you only agreed before because you were angry, then you are not capable of making sound decisions in a crisis. This is a crisis. I am going to make the sound decision."</p><p></p><p>Good luck. Be firm, stand your ground. Someone has to - he's all quicksand!</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 403388, member: 1991"] There is no magic bullet. But here there is a chance. Two things to tell husband. "You agreed. I went ahead because you agreed. I checked with you each step. You cannot change your mind now, without seeming to all of us, including difficult child, to be weak, pliable and not a leader." "She needs this. If you refuse her this chance, you are throwing away your daughter. If this turns out to be a wrong decision for her, not needed, it will become obvious very, very quickly and of course she could then come home. They do not want kids in there who don't really need it after all." And a third thing - "If you only agreed before because you were angry, then you are not capable of making sound decisions in a crisis. This is a crisis. I am going to make the sound decision." Good luck. Be firm, stand your ground. Someone has to - he's all quicksand! Marg [/QUOTE]
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