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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 403545" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Worst case scenario - pregnant, drug-addicted, working as a street hooker to pay her pimp/pusher, getting beaten up by clients and giving birth to a drug-addicted, HIV-positive baby that YOU will have to try to rescue. And he has to face his own role in this. But he won't. Clearly he has got blaming others down to a fine art.</p><p></p><p>Attacking you and twisting words, instead of working with you to find a solution, is very childish, is bad tactics and is not helping your daughter. It's classic deflection tactic - "If I can attack when I feel threatened, maybe she won't notice I'm not as confident as I want her to think. And above all, I must not give way, even if I don't really know anything about this. I still have to always be right or I am not a man."</p><p></p><p>I really HATE arguments like that one. Hugs, honey.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 403545, member: 1991"] Worst case scenario - pregnant, drug-addicted, working as a street hooker to pay her pimp/pusher, getting beaten up by clients and giving birth to a drug-addicted, HIV-positive baby that YOU will have to try to rescue. And he has to face his own role in this. But he won't. Clearly he has got blaming others down to a fine art. Attacking you and twisting words, instead of working with you to find a solution, is very childish, is bad tactics and is not helping your daughter. It's classic deflection tactic - "If I can attack when I feel threatened, maybe she won't notice I'm not as confident as I want her to think. And above all, I must not give way, even if I don't really know anything about this. I still have to always be right or I am not a man." I really HATE arguments like that one. Hugs, honey. Marg [/QUOTE]
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