Ok, ran into an "I dont know what to do" tonight. husband let his "dishes" slide this weekend. Yesterday, I worked from home and did all the laundry and loaded ran, and unloaded the dishwasher twice, went to PT, cooked supper, and cleaned it up. I did not, however, load the dishwasher a third time after supper. And, I neglected to thoroughly rinse a pan I'd made hollandaise sauce in (filled it with water, but did not scrub it out). This is something I ask husband to do repeatedly, and largely, he doesn't. I quit caring when he started doing the dishes, but I can't tell you how many dried on over easy egg goo plates I have scrubbed. He jumped my butt tonight for not scrubbing out the pan, and frankly, it ticked me off. So, how should I have reacted?