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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 456483" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Makes it much worse that today is our 28th wedding anniversary.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>The damage to the heart is too extensive for them to do anything. Palliative care is basically it right now. </p><p></p><p>He thinks they should be trying to "fix" him. I think due to pain medications ect he's not fully understanding that he can't be "fixed". And yet every once in a while, like with Nichole, he'll very soberly say "I'm dying". </p><p></p><p>So I really don't know if he's "getting" it or not. And I can't bring myself to be bluntly honest with him so far. I guess because that means that I have to accept it too, and I've not quite reached that point yet. When I have to update someone on his condition.....I have all I can do to get the words out. Because that makes it real. I don't want it to be real. I guess the shock has worn off.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 456483, member: 84"] Makes it much worse that today is our 28th wedding anniversary.:frowny: The damage to the heart is too extensive for them to do anything. Palliative care is basically it right now. He thinks they should be trying to "fix" him. I think due to pain medications ect he's not fully understanding that he can't be "fixed". And yet every once in a while, like with Nichole, he'll very soberly say "I'm dying". So I really don't know if he's "getting" it or not. And I can't bring myself to be bluntly honest with him so far. I guess because that means that I have to accept it too, and I've not quite reached that point yet. When I have to update someone on his condition.....I have all I can do to get the words out. Because that makes it real. I don't want it to be real. I guess the shock has worn off. [/QUOTE]
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