Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Hypothetically speaking...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 178391" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Sara, that is what the psychiatric who did his testing mentioned. (it was 2 1/2 years ago) I wasn't thrilled with the way she handled some things but the psychiatrists own the office, so maybe that has omething to do with it. She didn't put it in her written report, but she told me at the follow-up that there was a big possibility that difficult child was breaking the law in ways that he KNEW were completely out of acceptance for me because subconsciously, he had to know if I would love him and be there no matter what. In a way, it sounds like pscho-babble. In another way, I think there has to be some truth to it. My son has always been a handful, but he had never broken the law before he learned of his father's actions. He was fairly secure before that and I'm sure he knew of the things that I would never approve of. He never showed signs of major depression before that. And, about the same time that he learned of his father's decisions, we had a family friend die from a chemo treatment for breast cancer, I had a suspect mammo and had been telling him that if it was cancerous, I would have chemo. He had been asking about who would take take iof him, where would he live, etc. During this period, he was acting out at school and teachers were threatening him with detention, Special Education classes, etc. They were telling him that he was just bad. He told me himself that he must be bad because the teachers told him that and his dad never wanted him and bad things happened in his life and to people he loved. This is when he started giving away his toys and almost set himself on fire.</p><p></p><p>My son is not better than anyone else- but he is worth saving- I feel it in my heart and bones and blood. It just seems that sometimes profs won't listen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 178391, member: 3699"] Sara, that is what the psychiatric who did his testing mentioned. (it was 2 1/2 years ago) I wasn't thrilled with the way she handled some things but the psychiatrists own the office, so maybe that has omething to do with it. She didn't put it in her written report, but she told me at the follow-up that there was a big possibility that difficult child was breaking the law in ways that he KNEW were completely out of acceptance for me because subconsciously, he had to know if I would love him and be there no matter what. In a way, it sounds like pscho-babble. In another way, I think there has to be some truth to it. My son has always been a handful, but he had never broken the law before he learned of his father's actions. He was fairly secure before that and I'm sure he knew of the things that I would never approve of. He never showed signs of major depression before that. And, about the same time that he learned of his father's decisions, we had a family friend die from a chemo treatment for breast cancer, I had a suspect mammo and had been telling him that if it was cancerous, I would have chemo. He had been asking about who would take take iof him, where would he live, etc. During this period, he was acting out at school and teachers were threatening him with detention, Special Education classes, etc. They were telling him that he was just bad. He told me himself that he must be bad because the teachers told him that and his dad never wanted him and bad things happened in his life and to people he loved. This is when he started giving away his toys and almost set himself on fire. My son is not better than anyone else- but he is worth saving- I feel it in my heart and bones and blood. It just seems that sometimes profs won't listen. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Hypothetically speaking...
Top