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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 690975" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>LOL. I actually do know how...I'm just too polite to do it on purpose most of the time. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /> </p><p></p><p>Yesterday I think I was grasping at straws; trying to, once again, try to come up with some reason. Copa is right about me. In some thread she said the one time I'm dispairing and helpless is where my kid is involved. I'm not nearly so together as she thinks, but professionally, I'm a generally confident person. In my field, I'd stack my ability up against anyone's. But when it comes to ME and the important personal things, not so much. And I am comfortable with facts and knowledge. I don't understand this. </p><p></p><p>I am a fixer. I want to fix my son. I know I can't, intellectually, but in my heart I just cant get past the idea that putting him out is wrong. Not before. When he stole from us, that was right. He had to go. But this time...</p><p></p><p>This time it feels wrong. This time it feels like he should have more time. I keep feeling that, if he had time and professional help it would help. </p><p></p><p>Copa said her leverage the threat of putting her son out. But mine is out in a couple weeks, regardless and not allowed back, regardless. Where is the leverage? Where It's the incentive to change? </p><p></p><p>If it weren't for Jabber (sorry honey) I would not do it. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 690975, member: 17309"] LOL. I actually do know how...I'm just too polite to do it on purpose most of the time. :p Yesterday I think I was grasping at straws; trying to, once again, try to come up with some reason. Copa is right about me. In some thread she said the one time I'm dispairing and helpless is where my kid is involved. I'm not nearly so together as she thinks, but professionally, I'm a generally confident person. In my field, I'd stack my ability up against anyone's. But when it comes to ME and the important personal things, not so much. And I am comfortable with facts and knowledge. I don't understand this. I am a fixer. I want to fix my son. I know I can't, intellectually, but in my heart I just cant get past the idea that putting him out is wrong. Not before. When he stole from us, that was right. He had to go. But this time... This time it feels wrong. This time it feels like he should have more time. I keep feeling that, if he had time and professional help it would help. Copa said her leverage the threat of putting her son out. But mine is out in a couple weeks, regardless and not allowed back, regardless. Where is the leverage? Where It's the incentive to change? If it weren't for Jabber (sorry honey) I would not do it. :( [/QUOTE]
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