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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 690991" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>No. I do not want that.</p><p></p><p>What I want is very simple. I want to say, before the time comes so it is us offering, not giving in: You don't have the money. Here's how it is. 1) You WILL go to counseling. Every week. 2) You WILL stop smoking pot so you can pass a drug test and get a full time job. 3) You WILL get that full-time job by <date> and you will pay US $200 per month in rent. Then you may stay here until <date> at which point you will get an apartment and pay for it yourself. </p><p></p><p>If you agree, you may stay until you are on your feet. If you don't, you will leave as we agreed, when the apartment is open. </p><p></p><p>That's what I want.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I agree completely. I'm angry with him. He's right...he can't pass a drug test. But he KNEW that when he moved in and he's had more than enough time to be clean for drug tests if he'd quit then! It sucks and I hate it.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>No. I'm not. </p><p></p><p>I do, however, think you tell him no out of reflex, rather than any real reason to.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Actually, I think I'm doing all the compromising. But that's something we need to talk about NOT in writing on the board. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 690991, member: 17309"] No. I do not want that. What I want is very simple. I want to say, before the time comes so it is us offering, not giving in: You don't have the money. Here's how it is. 1) You WILL go to counseling. Every week. 2) You WILL stop smoking pot so you can pass a drug test and get a full time job. 3) You WILL get that full-time job by <date> and you will pay US $200 per month in rent. Then you may stay here until <date> at which point you will get an apartment and pay for it yourself. If you agree, you may stay until you are on your feet. If you don't, you will leave as we agreed, when the apartment is open. That's what I want. I agree completely. I'm angry with him. He's right...he can't pass a drug test. But he KNEW that when he moved in and he's had more than enough time to be clean for drug tests if he'd quit then! It sucks and I hate it. No. I'm not. I do, however, think you tell him no out of reflex, rather than any real reason to. Actually, I think I'm doing all the compromising. But that's something we need to talk about NOT in writing on the board. :( [/QUOTE]
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