Thanks everyone. Duckie has slipped a bit this week. She goes for some routine allergy testing next week and hasn't had her Zyrtec since Wednesday night. She's clingy, talkative and squirrely. She was argumentative and difficult yesterday so she missed attending a classmate's birthday party today.
We ended up having the in-laws here which worked out well, except for having to push hard to get the house and yard cleaned up quickly. And I'll probably rot in hell for saying this but it went well because my mother in law didn't attend. My brother in law brought his 5 year old son into town from NC. They arrived Thursday and fly out on Saturday. My mother in law has been playing games with giving out information of brother in law's plans while he's here. She wouldn't give husband any specifics and didn't even tell husband's sister that brother in law was coming!
We received a phone call at 5:52pm on Thursday about going out to dinner that night; husband was working late while Duckie & I had already headed out to cheer practice. Then, my father in law called the house on Friday at 11:39am to talk to husband about going golfing at 12:30pm; husband was at work (of course).
So.... brother in law called his sister and husband around noon today to make sure he would see us and we threw together a quick pool party. I also made a point of telling brother in law that he needs to call us directly about his plans instead of going through his parents. He agreed.
So, Duckie was actually the lesser of two difficult children that I've been dealing with this week. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.