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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 134365" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I've written our Governor, State senators, Legislatures so much that I don't even get form letters anymore. </p><p></p><p>I have not called the news yet - But I have had luck with the Governor's office. Start there at a state level. </p><p></p><p>Sorry you are going through this - </p><p>And Also - keep a spiral note book of times, dates, phone numbers and write down each and every event like this, who WAS there - who wasnt' there the actions they took and start a paper trail - you will be AMAZED in years to come how valuable this book(s) will be. </p><p></p><p>I actually was able to resolve and get a new placement for my son recently because I had copied our PHONE NOTES and sent them to the caseworker - </p><p>I speak, write, time, date, conversation - and then repeat it TO the person I'm talking to while telling them I am writing this down so there is NO missunderstanding - do they know that I am writing this down? Yes - okay and then repeat the start time of the call, end time and that I told them i was writing it down - . </p><p></p><p>Apparently I have a good law suite against the state regarding the last group home and what services we were told Dude would get, and did not. The boss got on the phone with me when we got Dude out of there and said some things (I wrote down) and then at a later meeting I gave him the notes from that call where he was NOW backpeddling about what he said. I told him - either you said this and agreed to it when I told you I am writing this down - OR you didn't say it then and are lying now. He never said another word except - What I meant to say was.....and DF looked at him and said "If you meant to say you sent Dude to a hell hole you would have said it, What you said on this date was YOU were FULLY AWARE of the services and had visited the home, and have inspectors there all the time "eyes on" making us believe you had done your job and inspected the home, gotten references and made monthly visits." </p><p></p><p>-They tried to tell us they had no idea, had never used these people before . In my written notes I had put "had several clients at this residence in the past-fantastic services, on site counseling, on site independent living skills, etc".......My son didn't even have food or a clean toilet and ended up in jail. </p><p></p><p>YEah - keep notes - they help</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 134365, member: 4964"] I've written our Governor, State senators, Legislatures so much that I don't even get form letters anymore. I have not called the news yet - But I have had luck with the Governor's office. Start there at a state level. Sorry you are going through this - And Also - keep a spiral note book of times, dates, phone numbers and write down each and every event like this, who WAS there - who wasnt' there the actions they took and start a paper trail - you will be AMAZED in years to come how valuable this book(s) will be. I actually was able to resolve and get a new placement for my son recently because I had copied our PHONE NOTES and sent them to the caseworker - I speak, write, time, date, conversation - and then repeat it TO the person I'm talking to while telling them I am writing this down so there is NO missunderstanding - do they know that I am writing this down? Yes - okay and then repeat the start time of the call, end time and that I told them i was writing it down - . Apparently I have a good law suite against the state regarding the last group home and what services we were told Dude would get, and did not. The boss got on the phone with me when we got Dude out of there and said some things (I wrote down) and then at a later meeting I gave him the notes from that call where he was NOW backpeddling about what he said. I told him - either you said this and agreed to it when I told you I am writing this down - OR you didn't say it then and are lying now. He never said another word except - What I meant to say was.....and DF looked at him and said "If you meant to say you sent Dude to a hell hole you would have said it, What you said on this date was YOU were FULLY AWARE of the services and had visited the home, and have inspectors there all the time "eyes on" making us believe you had done your job and inspected the home, gotten references and made monthly visits." -They tried to tell us they had no idea, had never used these people before . In my written notes I had put "had several clients at this residence in the past-fantastic services, on site counseling, on site independent living skills, etc".......My son didn't even have food or a clean toilet and ended up in jail. YEah - keep notes - they help [/QUOTE]
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