Due to the past when M has posted x rated pics onto myspace........and one very suspicious one of kayla (especially because of that one).......I tend to keep tabs on what he's posting. I had just checked it yesterday. And other than being disgusted by his intro and daily posts which are perverted and gross.......... no more pics. Until today. I didn't know Nichole has also kept tabs. I said something to her about his latest post........and she sent me the link to his page telling me she'd just been traumatized again. Yup. My sister in law full frontal nude picture......smart enough this time to keep his face out of it. Except it's on his page with his name all over it so fat lot of good that does. Posted as his PROFILE picture......so anyone even just looking up the name gets to be traumatized too. This picture was taken in the doorway between the livingroom and the kitchen of katie's apartment. No doubt. I lived that floor plan for years......I have no trouble recognizing where he's standing. And of course his page is all disgusting comments about what he wants to do with other females or himself. :wildone: His myspace page has been printed. It not only has the profile picture but the page info as well and what he has typed there. Also attempted to print just the photo itself......but it comes out too dark. I'll have to fix it........but I don't want to ewww ewwww ewwww. It's also been saved to both mine and Nichole's computers in case he goes in and changes it. Yes we reported him to myspace AGAIN. Past pics are on my external hard drive. I just need to find the cord to it to print them. I have as yet to blast katie. And I will blast her this time. She was told last time, given the benefit of the doubt........where as she made pathetic excuses and defended the slime ball. Odds are she'll pull another whoa is me routine and well Lisa I told him to stop doing that..........wtf? You got the perv living with you and my grandkids! Not. Good. Enough. I'm wondering if this would be enough for cps to at least investigate......... Probably not, as it doesn't directly involve the kids except he took the picture in the livingroom in the middle of the day so I wanna know where the h*ll my grandkids were when he did it.......since school is out and katie won't take them anywhere she doesn't HAVE to especially alone. There is something dark and sinister going on under the surface of this between katie, M and yes even the kids. I've held the suspicion for more than a decade, with never enough evidence to go to authorities. Instinct and experience screams it at me. But I try not to let my thoughts go there until I have something tangible to work with. Just been watching closely for any signs. Then heaven help the man, he'll be praying he does get arrested to protect him from me. I am livid. I want to barf. I am soul sick that my grandkids are subjected to this monster every day of their lives and there is not one damn thing I can do about it. I'm fed up with a broken system that dos NOT work to protect the innocent until they are so damaged there is little hope in helping them recover. I'm tired of making reports that go nowhere. I wonder what would happen if I didn't tell katie about this but took it to the police dept or sheriff? Isn't posted x rated pics a crime? If I tell her, he's just going to take it down for a while.......and the only proof I have is our files and the print out. OMG seriously. You've no idea how badly I don't want to be involved in this crud. I don't want to know kayla alex and evan are living this nightmare. My mind doesn't want to go there. My heart doesn't want to go there. It's just too d*mn painful. I don't want to be responsible for my grandkids welfare. I don't want that on my shoulders. There, I said it. Awful huh? But I guess even seasoned warrior mom's get sick of running into brick walls. But I also can't ignore it either. I hate this. You've no idea. No point going to cps if they're not going to do anything.....it will just make the odds of me getting something tangible to work with less as they'll be watching what slips. No point going to the police if they won't do anything for the same reason. If they're on guard I have NO chance of getting something solid against this perverted twisted slime ball. (MUCH stronger words going through my brain) M has them all so tight under his control that slips are seldom, and not much........the most actually come from him, himself. I've gotten off handed......odd remarks from kayla once or twice....but not anything I can do anything with. If they're on guard, chance of getting anything to work with drops to zero. I have suspected something going on since........well crud........since he arrived on the scene when katie was first here when the older two were babies. Kayla's behavior dramatically changed and I do mean dramatic. When a toddler latches on to her grandmother and literally goes into hysterics when her mother comes to pick her up (soon as daddy O officially enters the picture) there is a major something going on. I won't go into further details......but lets just say I had strong basis for suspicion. It's why I nearly lost my mind when she took off with him last time. So. Could use some sound advice. If I move too soon, I may blow any chance of nailing this monster. Personally I'd like to skip the nailing him part and just deliver some of my own justice.......but I tell myself I'm no longer a difficult child. So fantacizing about it will have to do until I can bring him.........and maybe even him AND katie to justice. Yes, I have to admit to myself, even though I don't want to, that she may also be involved. She IS allowing this behavior to continue at the very least........and God only knows what else. Makes me soul sick. Which is why I don't really wanna go there most of the time.