Hi everyone, I have been a lurker on this site for quite awhile now and have gotten quite a bit of good advise and information. I am to the point now that I don't know where to turn. It's like my difficult child just doesnt get it! We have had several problems with her in the last year and I just don't know how much more I can take. SHe recently spent 6 days in the hospital and when she got out she promised us things were going to be different..we really thought we were on the path to healing. LAst night she totally disregarded out rules and took her car...then lied! I am so hurt...and frustrated...and worried about her future. We told her if she broke the rules again we would sell her car..so now we have to. WHy can't she see that things would be so much better if she just followed our rules? I am just exausted....I love her so much but I am just so tired of dealing with it.