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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 358479" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I forgot two things- I would have edited my first post but it's clicking everywhere except where I need it to. First, I did tell the MH evaluator that if the only two choices available are difficult child going back to Department of Juvenile Justice now for a short period of time ( a few months) for parole violations or coming back out feeling like he only had a slap on the hand and plowing into more until he gets arrested again and then gets back to Department of Juvenile Justice with a longer period, I choose him going back now. But, I know they won't do that because no one over there does anything that is really inhis best interest. So, he will get released and come home for more of the same and I'll just prepare myself as best as I can to go another round. Even difficult child himself said tonight that "didn't the PO say before that I'd go back to Department of Juvenile Justice on the first parole violation"?) I could tell by the evaluation's reaction that I wasn't saying anything she wanted to hear. And, as I've also told PO- I asked her just how long do they expect me to sit and watch while they destroy my son. Really, his future is ruined, I'm wiped out, and they continue to try walking down the same road. Oh- difficult child also told me tonight that I obviously didn't love him because mothers that love their kids don't tell the PO when they do drugs and other things wrong. (huh huh)</p><p></p><p>And no- I am not going to clean up the mess he left in his bedroom and game room again. He came home long enough to get those rooms filthy and he can clean them. If he comes home.</p><p></p><p>Second thing- and more important- I apologize for not responding to others' threads lately. I have been lurking and reading some, but have felt in a haze lately and not very positive so I didn't think I could help anyone else at all. I am sorry- I still care about all of you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 358479, member: 3699"] I forgot two things- I would have edited my first post but it's clicking everywhere except where I need it to. First, I did tell the MH evaluator that if the only two choices available are difficult child going back to Department of Juvenile Justice now for a short period of time ( a few months) for parole violations or coming back out feeling like he only had a slap on the hand and plowing into more until he gets arrested again and then gets back to Department of Juvenile Justice with a longer period, I choose him going back now. But, I know they won't do that because no one over there does anything that is really inhis best interest. So, he will get released and come home for more of the same and I'll just prepare myself as best as I can to go another round. Even difficult child himself said tonight that "didn't the PO say before that I'd go back to Department of Juvenile Justice on the first parole violation"?) I could tell by the evaluation's reaction that I wasn't saying anything she wanted to hear. And, as I've also told PO- I asked her just how long do they expect me to sit and watch while they destroy my son. Really, his future is ruined, I'm wiped out, and they continue to try walking down the same road. Oh- difficult child also told me tonight that I obviously didn't love him because mothers that love their kids don't tell the PO when they do drugs and other things wrong. (huh huh) And no- I am not going to clean up the mess he left in his bedroom and game room again. He came home long enough to get those rooms filthy and he can clean them. If he comes home. Second thing- and more important- I apologize for not responding to others' threads lately. I have been lurking and reading some, but have felt in a haze lately and not very positive so I didn't think I could help anyone else at all. I am sorry- I still care about all of you! [/QUOTE]
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