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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 358510" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks, Ladies. I'm up having coffee and decided I will go too court. However, their plan could be dramatically different depending on who, if anyone, sees and talks to difficult child before court this morning. If he tells his def attny what he (difficult child) told me last night, difficult child could be held in detention while a GAL and DSS get on board and review placement. If the PO talks to him instead of the def attny, the PO might hear what I heard and might change his mind again. - which is one reason why I only told difficult child what the def attny planned to ask for. I already figured out that PO, although better than previous probation officer, is not all that consistent. Both PO and def attny told me they would talk to difficult child before court but both won't have time because neither went over to see difficult child yesterday so they both have left it with just about 30 mins this morning where there would be opportunity. I doubt the def attny will go, based on what we've seen in him in the past.</p><p></p><p>If it still turns out where difficult child comes home, I won't be putting all my eggs in the PO's basket. I'll still try to work with him but after he originally claimed that difficult child would go back to Department of Juvenile Justice if he came home and didn't do what he should, then didn't violate him until he messed up twice so he ended up with two violations for about 5, tthen he didn't even ask for a monitored ankle bracelet like he said he would- I seriously doubt sending difficult child home with a slap on the wrist and more rope is a good idea and going to be very effective. Seriously- they think this 3 weeks has changed difficult child? So, if difficult child breaks the law - even sneaking out in the middle of the night- I'll be calling 911- and I'm going to make sure everyone understands that. One thing I can say, difficult child knows that if I tell him beforehand that I will report him to the cops if he does a particular thing, he KNOWS I will stick to it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 358510, member: 3699"] Thanks, Ladies. I'm up having coffee and decided I will go too court. However, their plan could be dramatically different depending on who, if anyone, sees and talks to difficult child before court this morning. If he tells his def attny what he (difficult child) told me last night, difficult child could be held in detention while a GAL and DSS get on board and review placement. If the PO talks to him instead of the def attny, the PO might hear what I heard and might change his mind again. - which is one reason why I only told difficult child what the def attny planned to ask for. I already figured out that PO, although better than previous probation officer, is not all that consistent. Both PO and def attny told me they would talk to difficult child before court but both won't have time because neither went over to see difficult child yesterday so they both have left it with just about 30 mins this morning where there would be opportunity. I doubt the def attny will go, based on what we've seen in him in the past. If it still turns out where difficult child comes home, I won't be putting all my eggs in the PO's basket. I'll still try to work with him but after he originally claimed that difficult child would go back to Department of Juvenile Justice if he came home and didn't do what he should, then didn't violate him until he messed up twice so he ended up with two violations for about 5, tthen he didn't even ask for a monitored ankle bracelet like he said he would- I seriously doubt sending difficult child home with a slap on the wrist and more rope is a good idea and going to be very effective. Seriously- they think this 3 weeks has changed difficult child? So, if difficult child breaks the law - even sneaking out in the middle of the night- I'll be calling 911- and I'm going to make sure everyone understands that. One thing I can say, difficult child knows that if I tell him beforehand that I will report him to the cops if he does a particular thing, he KNOWS I will stick to it. [/QUOTE]
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