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I believe she will place baby with-adoptive parents
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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 250669"><p>My sister adopted a little girl years ago. I don't quite understand how it worked, but did know that the bio mom recieved several letters to choose from. She chose my sister since her baby would have 3 older brothers to protect her. Among many other good things.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, my sister went to meet the mother in a near by town. Bio mom was 19 years old. Single and scared. She was with her mom for the meeting. Bio mom was raised in a wealthy lifestyle. However, when she became pregnant her parents told her she had to leave. Took her to social services, helped her find an apartment and that was it. Bio mom wanted to keep the baby. When baby was 5 months old, she realized it was so much harder than she thought. She chose my sister for her babies mother. She also gave my sister a letter and asked that she give it to her daughter when she was 16. </p><p>the letter stated how much she loves her. How much she wants her to have in life, and she is not capable of giving that to her. She told her the circumstances of her adoption. Not that she didn't want her or didn't love her. that she wanted her to have so much more. The letter was well written. She stated if she ever decides to find her, contact her she would be so excited. But she also stated she would not contact her or try to find her.</p><p>My niece just turned 25 years old. She is not at the point to find her bio mom. She loves her family and is very happy with her life. Some day, maybe.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe N needs to be on her own. Always remind her even if she choses to keep the baby, that at any point if she is overwhelmed there are always choices and always help. I can not imagine the selflessness of someone wanting so much for a child that they can give it up for the better of the child. That takes more strength than I can imagine.</p><p> </p><p>I hope she is considering all options. And I am sure whatever her decision, things will work out ok.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 250669"] My sister adopted a little girl years ago. I don't quite understand how it worked, but did know that the bio mom recieved several letters to choose from. She chose my sister since her baby would have 3 older brothers to protect her. Among many other good things. Anyway, my sister went to meet the mother in a near by town. Bio mom was 19 years old. Single and scared. She was with her mom for the meeting. Bio mom was raised in a wealthy lifestyle. However, when she became pregnant her parents told her she had to leave. Took her to social services, helped her find an apartment and that was it. Bio mom wanted to keep the baby. When baby was 5 months old, she realized it was so much harder than she thought. She chose my sister for her babies mother. She also gave my sister a letter and asked that she give it to her daughter when she was 16. the letter stated how much she loves her. How much she wants her to have in life, and she is not capable of giving that to her. She told her the circumstances of her adoption. Not that she didn't want her or didn't love her. that she wanted her to have so much more. The letter was well written. She stated if she ever decides to find her, contact her she would be so excited. But she also stated she would not contact her or try to find her. My niece just turned 25 years old. She is not at the point to find her bio mom. She loves her family and is very happy with her life. Some day, maybe. Maybe N needs to be on her own. Always remind her even if she choses to keep the baby, that at any point if she is overwhelmed there are always choices and always help. I can not imagine the selflessness of someone wanting so much for a child that they can give it up for the better of the child. That takes more strength than I can imagine. I hope she is considering all options. And I am sure whatever her decision, things will work out ok. [/QUOTE]
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