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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 692464" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Lol (dang tablet) it is worth a try. I'm sure you can introduce it in a very gentle way. I feel your kindness in your posts. Maybe even hold his hand, if he lets you.</p><p></p><p>"Son, hear me out. You may reject my idea and even walk away (bring it up in advance to mitigate the action if he sadly takes it.)That's your choice if you'll only listen first. I love you so very much " I like telling Jumper I love her to the moon but not sure that would work for your boy. It might make him smile or roll his eyes and sayb"Oh, mom!" But he will get it.</p><p></p><p>Your dad and I believe you struggle with anxiety and work and making friends. Some people do...honestly, you aren't alone. I would so appreciate it if you'd humor me and just try a different direction. We don't want to make you leave. We want to see if we can help you. Maybe we've been trying to help you the wrongbwayb(never hurts to take some blame...I have sure done it).</p><p></p><p>Then present Aspetgers as a MILD disorder that does not require medication or anything scary...just some help with coping skills. You know best what to say to your son. If he listens and talks about it...ok, yes, give him something small he likes, like money for cigarettes. Thank him for hearing you out.</p><p></p><p>Vomit worthy? Perhaps. But he seems so overly sensitive that hearing you out would probably make him very anxious so it would be an accomplishment. A big, New one that was hard for him.</p><p></p><p>If he walks out...no cigarettes and you know you have tried your very very hardest. His total fear of failure touches me in a very hearfelt way. And I do think it's fear. He is one kid on this site I'd love to meet and hug..oh, I know he's not always likeable, but he has your heart, caring about animals his friends even if they don't always do him right.</p><p></p><p>Your son is far from hopeless. I suspect bio. Dad had similar fears and issues. And his life with Jabber and you have shown your boy only love.</p><p></p><p>I hope it works if you do it and you know how beloved you are on this forum. We will be here to hold your hand anytime you are down. Anytime. We so care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 692464, member: 1550"] Lol (dang tablet) it is worth a try. I'm sure you can introduce it in a very gentle way. I feel your kindness in your posts. Maybe even hold his hand, if he lets you. "Son, hear me out. You may reject my idea and even walk away (bring it up in advance to mitigate the action if he sadly takes it.)That's your choice if you'll only listen first. I love you so very much " I like telling Jumper I love her to the moon but not sure that would work for your boy. It might make him smile or roll his eyes and sayb"Oh, mom!" But he will get it. Your dad and I believe you struggle with anxiety and work and making friends. Some people do...honestly, you aren't alone. I would so appreciate it if you'd humor me and just try a different direction. We don't want to make you leave. We want to see if we can help you. Maybe we've been trying to help you the wrongbwayb(never hurts to take some blame...I have sure done it). Then present Aspetgers as a MILD disorder that does not require medication or anything scary...just some help with coping skills. You know best what to say to your son. If he listens and talks about it...ok, yes, give him something small he likes, like money for cigarettes. Thank him for hearing you out. Vomit worthy? Perhaps. But he seems so overly sensitive that hearing you out would probably make him very anxious so it would be an accomplishment. A big, New one that was hard for him. If he walks out...no cigarettes and you know you have tried your very very hardest. His total fear of failure touches me in a very hearfelt way. And I do think it's fear. He is one kid on this site I'd love to meet and hug..oh, I know he's not always likeable, but he has your heart, caring about animals his friends even if they don't always do him right. Your son is far from hopeless. I suspect bio. Dad had similar fears and issues. And his life with Jabber and you have shown your boy only love. I hope it works if you do it and you know how beloved you are on this forum. We will be here to hold your hand anytime you are down. Anytime. We so care. [/QUOTE]
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