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I can't stop the pain
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 414171"><p>I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are going through hexx. One thing that helps me is to understand that the depth of this despair is similar to what our difficult children go through. We ask them to pick themselves up, take any help provided for them and move forward in a healthy manner. It is only right that we do this for ourselves. Honestly, I do believe our burden is enormous and we need to be patient and loving with ourselves. But even though our personal burden is large, nevertheless, it is a road we must travel through. We don't seem to have a choice....the pain is here and it is real. So....recognizing that you are in profound pain...you have reached out for help. This pain you have expressed sounds like it is causing you profound heartache. I do hope that if you are not doing so already, that you will consider seeing a therapist. And if you are not doing so currently, that you will consider continued visits with Al Anon or a similar group. Inch by inch, I pray that you will resume any activities that you enjoy. </p><p> </p><p>The idea of a part time job or addiitonal volunteering sounds great!</p><p> </p><p>It is likely that inch by inch, you will feel better. Sending good thoughts that you will feel better soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 414171"] I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are going through hexx. One thing that helps me is to understand that the depth of this despair is similar to what our difficult children go through. We ask them to pick themselves up, take any help provided for them and move forward in a healthy manner. It is only right that we do this for ourselves. Honestly, I do believe our burden is enormous and we need to be patient and loving with ourselves. But even though our personal burden is large, nevertheless, it is a road we must travel through. We don't seem to have a choice....the pain is here and it is real. So....recognizing that you are in profound pain...you have reached out for help. This pain you have expressed sounds like it is causing you profound heartache. I do hope that if you are not doing so already, that you will consider seeing a therapist. And if you are not doing so currently, that you will consider continued visits with Al Anon or a similar group. Inch by inch, I pray that you will resume any activities that you enjoy. The idea of a part time job or addiitonal volunteering sounds great! It is likely that inch by inch, you will feel better. Sending good thoughts that you will feel better soon. [/QUOTE]
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