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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 137450"><p>Going to add my 2 cents here. You need to take care of YOU. What ever that is, however you do it. If you are dependent on him, he knows he will have you because you need him.</p><p>My experience has shown me that once I became a strong, independent person, HE would never risk losing me if he truly wanted me. And if he took the chance of losing me, then he never really wanted me.</p><p> </p><p>It took a long time for me to get through that period in my life. I know now, if I had to I would be OK...me and the kids.</p><p> </p><p>on the other hand..I have male friends. Men I use to work with. I am very close to a couple men who have spent 20 years of my life working with. My husband has been included in our conversations. If we go to lunch, my husband is always welcome and he knows it. Male and female friends. We don't see or talk often, but when we do it isn't just myself and the other. Our spouses, families are included. </p><p>husband rarely socializes. If he has co-workers that he talks to, male or female I am fine with it. UNLESS, he did so without informing me or including me.</p><p>That for both male and female. I respect the person, and would not ever think of not including husband. And vice versa. And husband rarely joins us, and I rarely join him.</p><p> </p><p>I would not handle your situation very well. If she is a friend, include you.</p><p> </p><p>I hope you take the time to take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 137450"] Going to add my 2 cents here. You need to take care of YOU. What ever that is, however you do it. If you are dependent on him, he knows he will have you because you need him. My experience has shown me that once I became a strong, independent person, HE would never risk losing me if he truly wanted me. And if he took the chance of losing me, then he never really wanted me. It took a long time for me to get through that period in my life. I know now, if I had to I would be OK...me and the kids. on the other hand..I have male friends. Men I use to work with. I am very close to a couple men who have spent 20 years of my life working with. My husband has been included in our conversations. If we go to lunch, my husband is always welcome and he knows it. Male and female friends. We don't see or talk often, but when we do it isn't just myself and the other. Our spouses, families are included. husband rarely socializes. If he has co-workers that he talks to, male or female I am fine with it. UNLESS, he did so without informing me or including me. That for both male and female. I respect the person, and would not ever think of not including husband. And vice versa. And husband rarely joins us, and I rarely join him. I would not handle your situation very well. If she is a friend, include you. I hope you take the time to take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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