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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 137473" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>I agree with Kjs. Whatever is happening, nurturing yourself, making yourself stronger and more secure IN yourself, is the answer. He knows how you feel. Enough said. Actions speak louder than words. You cannot know what the future will bring ~ none of us can. </p><p></p><p>For me, this would be strike one.</p><p></p><p>I would distance myself emotionally from husband. Begin now to enlarge your life.</p><p></p><p>husband would need to choose his next move ~ not because I don't trust HIM, but because I don't want to play second fiddle and don't need the stress of wondering when or whether that is what is coming next.</p><p></p><p>This isn't about your trust issues.</p><p></p><p>It's about respect for you and for your relationship.</p><p></p><p>That isn't something you can make happen ~ it's either there or the relationship is not what you believed it to have been.</p><p></p><p>That's what I have to say about that, this morning.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 137473, member: 1721"] I agree with Kjs. Whatever is happening, nurturing yourself, making yourself stronger and more secure IN yourself, is the answer. He knows how you feel. Enough said. Actions speak louder than words. You cannot know what the future will bring ~ none of us can. For me, this would be strike one. I would distance myself emotionally from husband. Begin now to enlarge your life. husband would need to choose his next move ~ not because I don't trust HIM, but because I don't want to play second fiddle and don't need the stress of wondering when or whether that is what is coming next. This isn't about your trust issues. It's about respect for you and for your relationship. That isn't something you can make happen ~ it's either there or the relationship is not what you believed it to have been. That's what I have to say about that, this morning. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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