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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 137518" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Is he lying to you to keep from fighting with you or to keep from hurting you? </p><p> </p><p>If it is to prevent a fight, then you need to step back and look hard at the facts -- he's not cheating, he's trying to rescue. Let's face it, part of his relationship with you is premised on the knight in shining armor syndrome. Tell him to be honest if he's only being a friend. You may have difficulties with it because of the past but it will go a long way in the trust department. Then, as hard as it is, give him room to be that friend. </p><p> </p><p>If he's doing it to keep from hurting you, then he needs to look at himself and what his motives really are in talking to these women.</p><p> </p><p>Relationships are hard. We all bring so much baggage with us. When that baggage is a steamer trunk or two, it becomes really hard. You're having to deal with so much. I hope you find a way to work through this. A relationship without trust (whether it be lover, spouse, parents, child) is a relationship that won't succeed. Sooner or later, it is destroyed either because the lack of trust is warranted or because the lack of trust overwhelms every other aspect of the relationship.</p><p> </p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 137518, member: 3626"] Is he lying to you to keep from fighting with you or to keep from hurting you? If it is to prevent a fight, then you need to step back and look hard at the facts -- he's not cheating, he's trying to rescue. Let's face it, part of his relationship with you is premised on the knight in shining armor syndrome. Tell him to be honest if he's only being a friend. You may have difficulties with it because of the past but it will go a long way in the trust department. Then, as hard as it is, give him room to be that friend. If he's doing it to keep from hurting you, then he needs to look at himself and what his motives really are in talking to these women. Relationships are hard. We all bring so much baggage with us. When that baggage is a steamer trunk or two, it becomes really hard. You're having to deal with so much. I hope you find a way to work through this. A relationship without trust (whether it be lover, spouse, parents, child) is a relationship that won't succeed. Sooner or later, it is destroyed either because the lack of trust is warranted or because the lack of trust overwhelms every other aspect of the relationship. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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