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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 149729" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Hey, Jen.</p><p> </p><p>I hate to say it but I have to agree with BBK. As long as trust is an issue for either of you, there's no reason to take it any further. </p><p> </p><p>Doesn't mean you have to leave, just means you guys probably need to get some counseling, together and seperate, if you want this to work. He's got to build trust, and maybe it will include this other lady. Lord knows one of my closest friends was my husband, long before we were married. There was nothing more there. There was nothing there when he moved in here...he moved in to help me with money and kids. It went from there. I have 2 other friends that are guys, but husband is OK with it...I can carry on a conversation with either right in front of him. Anyway, long story short, the lady friend may need to go, she may need to stay, but getting married, now, in my humble opinion, is asking for more trouble. </p><p> </p><p>men and women both seem to think that little piece of paper is some kind of assurance that the other isn't going anywhere. Its not. And that needs to be figured out before there's a little piece of paper.</p><p> </p><p>Whatever you choose to do, good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 149729, member: 1848"] Hey, Jen. I hate to say it but I have to agree with BBK. As long as trust is an issue for either of you, there's no reason to take it any further. Doesn't mean you have to leave, just means you guys probably need to get some counseling, together and seperate, if you want this to work. He's got to build trust, and maybe it will include this other lady. Lord knows one of my closest friends was my husband, long before we were married. There was nothing more there. There was nothing there when he moved in here...he moved in to help me with money and kids. It went from there. I have 2 other friends that are guys, but husband is OK with it...I can carry on a conversation with either right in front of him. Anyway, long story short, the lady friend may need to go, she may need to stay, but getting married, now, in my humble opinion, is asking for more trouble. men and women both seem to think that little piece of paper is some kind of assurance that the other isn't going anywhere. Its not. And that needs to be figured out before there's a little piece of paper. Whatever you choose to do, good luck. [/QUOTE]
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