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I didn't send him to school.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 299594" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Dang it all! I was so praying when you first went to this school last year that it would be a great experience. Now all they have done is to slow his academic growth and put him in a very very bad place emotionally! I wish I lived closer so I could go pour boiling oil on those cruel idiots at that school!!</p><p></p><p>This brings back so very many horrible memories about Wiz and school. Do not ever doubt that this is hurting your child greatly. Wiz was 7yo and in 2nd grade when he first tried to commit suicide because "the teacher says I am bad and I will never be good ever in my whole life". I have that phrase burned into my memories and it makes me see red.</p><p></p><p>It is time to stop playing nice and get an advocate and a lawyer to sue the school district for abuse and intentionally causing emotional distress. </p><p></p><p>They seem bound and determined to prove he is 'bad' no matter what so they just keep heaping more and more abuse on him.</p><p></p><p>I had to make that choice about work or caring for Wiz. It wasn't a very easy choice, but it turned out to be a very good one. It took over a YEAR to get to a place where Wiz would do a full day's worth of assignments but we spent much of that year in group and indiv therapy and doctor appts of all kinds. </p><p></p><p>I call it the year we taught wiz how to be a decent person and to enjoy himself. I never regretted homeschooling him - not even the days he drove me nuts.</p><p></p><p>Sending lots of hugs to all of you.</p><p></p><p>Weegfg, I am so sorry that the adults in your school are meanie weenies. You are NOT a bad boy in any way. They are BAD adults. Very bad. Auntie Susie says they need a time out and to do some work to learn to be good people before they can be rewarded with your time and efforts. </p><p>Your Board Aunties are trying to help mommy find ways to teach the school adults to behave well. </p><p></p><p>Do you think maybe the teacher and helpers need a chart where you can give them stickers for being good? Maybe you and mommy can talk about that and find a way to help them learn.</p><p></p><p>No matter what, always remember and never forget that Auntie Susie loves you and KNOWS you are a very good boy. You work so hard at being good and Mommy and I know it. It is NOT your fault that the school adults are so mean to you. I would be frustrated and would have a yelling fit with them just like you do. </p><p></p><p>So maybe we can work on not yelling together. I will work on it here and you work on it at home with mommy. Deal?</p><p></p><p>I am so proud of you for all the things you do!</p><p></p><p>Lots of Love,</p><p></p><p>Auntie Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 299594, member: 1233"] Dang it all! I was so praying when you first went to this school last year that it would be a great experience. Now all they have done is to slow his academic growth and put him in a very very bad place emotionally! I wish I lived closer so I could go pour boiling oil on those cruel idiots at that school!! This brings back so very many horrible memories about Wiz and school. Do not ever doubt that this is hurting your child greatly. Wiz was 7yo and in 2nd grade when he first tried to commit suicide because "the teacher says I am bad and I will never be good ever in my whole life". I have that phrase burned into my memories and it makes me see red. It is time to stop playing nice and get an advocate and a lawyer to sue the school district for abuse and intentionally causing emotional distress. They seem bound and determined to prove he is 'bad' no matter what so they just keep heaping more and more abuse on him. I had to make that choice about work or caring for Wiz. It wasn't a very easy choice, but it turned out to be a very good one. It took over a YEAR to get to a place where Wiz would do a full day's worth of assignments but we spent much of that year in group and indiv therapy and doctor appts of all kinds. I call it the year we taught wiz how to be a decent person and to enjoy himself. I never regretted homeschooling him - not even the days he drove me nuts. Sending lots of hugs to all of you. Weegfg, I am so sorry that the adults in your school are meanie weenies. You are NOT a bad boy in any way. They are BAD adults. Very bad. Auntie Susie says they need a time out and to do some work to learn to be good people before they can be rewarded with your time and efforts. Your Board Aunties are trying to help mommy find ways to teach the school adults to behave well. Do you think maybe the teacher and helpers need a chart where you can give them stickers for being good? Maybe you and mommy can talk about that and find a way to help them learn. No matter what, always remember and never forget that Auntie Susie loves you and KNOWS you are a very good boy. You work so hard at being good and Mommy and I know it. It is NOT your fault that the school adults are so mean to you. I would be frustrated and would have a yelling fit with them just like you do. So maybe we can work on not yelling together. I will work on it here and you work on it at home with mommy. Deal? I am so proud of you for all the things you do! Lots of Love, Auntie Susie [/QUOTE]
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