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I didn't send him to school.
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 299739" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Susie, thanks for that note. It made him smile, tho I don't think it all really sunk in. lol</p><p> </p><p>Sharon, thanks for the reminder, and no toes stepped on. I try to watch it, but when he never goes away, its hard. </p><p> </p><p>FWIW, the only reason I told him anything about the school not calling back (and it was just matter of fact) was because I didn't want him to get the message that he wasn't going because he didn't want to go...I wanted to send the message that an outside influence made this decision. I had told him when he was wailing in the hallway on Thursday that he was not a bad boy, he needed someone who could help him, and we would figure it out, so he knew I had talked to someone at school. </p><p> </p><p>I'm really, really afraid now, tho, that since the "seal has been broken", so to speak, on the behavior, that it will be easily transfered onto the new para. Its almost a gut feeling...not quite, but almost. And we just can't afford that, but how does she "learn" him with absolutely no margin for error now? I don't even know where to start.</p><p> </p><p>He sees a therapist, same one for 4 years now. She's really good with him and is writing another recommendation for me to take on Monday. We are in pretty consistent email communication and he has seen her in the midst of all this.</p><p> </p><p>I'm going to start working on how in the world we can possibly exist if I quit work. That's a "gut feeling" now, too, that I just need to bite that bullet.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 299739, member: 1848"] Susie, thanks for that note. It made him smile, tho I don't think it all really sunk in. lol Sharon, thanks for the reminder, and no toes stepped on. I try to watch it, but when he never goes away, its hard. FWIW, the only reason I told him anything about the school not calling back (and it was just matter of fact) was because I didn't want him to get the message that he wasn't going because he didn't want to go...I wanted to send the message that an outside influence made this decision. I had told him when he was wailing in the hallway on Thursday that he was not a bad boy, he needed someone who could help him, and we would figure it out, so he knew I had talked to someone at school. I'm really, really afraid now, tho, that since the "seal has been broken", so to speak, on the behavior, that it will be easily transfered onto the new para. Its almost a gut feeling...not quite, but almost. And we just can't afford that, but how does she "learn" him with absolutely no margin for error now? I don't even know where to start. He sees a therapist, same one for 4 years now. She's really good with him and is writing another recommendation for me to take on Monday. We are in pretty consistent email communication and he has seen her in the midst of all this. I'm going to start working on how in the world we can possibly exist if I quit work. That's a "gut feeling" now, too, that I just need to bite that bullet. [/QUOTE]
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