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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 598681"><p>So very sad. Are both your parents alive? Your mother as well? Do you have any relatives that you feel good about? </p><p>My mom died young and my father and I did not get along.</p><p>He died about two years ago. It was very weird. I did chose to see him at the very end. That was my choice. I did not act particularly emotional. </p><p>I'm an "only" child and did feel a certain amount of responsibility to help and to make sure his care was good.</p><p>But, my father was difficult (don't want to say the real word...it was very bad).</p><p><u>You need to do what is best for you and your circumstances.</u></p><p>I do not mourn my father's passing, only that I did not have a "healthy" father like others. Sad for me and sad for him. I pray that he made his peace with G-d and that he has good health (mental) in some sort of afterlife. This was the only thing I could give him. It really is very sad when a parent messes up so badly.</p><p>But a little warning...all that I said in the above sentences did hit me hard when he passed. NOt his actually passing, but what it represented.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 598681"] So very sad. Are both your parents alive? Your mother as well? Do you have any relatives that you feel good about? My mom died young and my father and I did not get along. He died about two years ago. It was very weird. I did chose to see him at the very end. That was my choice. I did not act particularly emotional. I'm an "only" child and did feel a certain amount of responsibility to help and to make sure his care was good. But, my father was difficult (don't want to say the real word...it was very bad). [U]You need to do what is best for you and your circumstances.[/U] I do not mourn my father's passing, only that I did not have a "healthy" father like others. Sad for me and sad for him. I pray that he made his peace with G-d and that he has good health (mental) in some sort of afterlife. This was the only thing I could give him. It really is very sad when a parent messes up so badly. But a little warning...all that I said in the above sentences did hit me hard when he passed. NOt his actually passing, but what it represented. [/QUOTE]
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