My difficult child is nearly 21 - has somehow managed to stay in college since Sept. Actually has done decently, passing anyway. Attendance is dropping off gradually, but only 6 more weeks to go. I was starting to think we had it "Made in the shade". I've been controlling her funding = paying the rent, doling out the rest in weekly allotments. She has forged 3 cheques, but not"too" badly......... considering........ The greatest challenge is that she has decided once again to be promiscuous. Has dated a guy since Nov - sort of --- slept with him of course, but didn't know his real full name until today. Has been sleeping with someone else for a month, a prime catch - unsure of age, has an 11 year old daughter, 14 year old son (difficult child says and I quote "I think the 14 year old was a mistake" ) oh, difficult child is so STUPID and I know that is not a nice word but it is made for a reason, as I mention to co-workers at school. My current dilema --- I'm so tired of trying to look for the positve, tired of trying to be supportive, tired of my daughter acting like a *****. She has discovered internet dating, so that is how she can sleep with 2 guys at the same time, it is a limitless world now and of course they are all so nice to be with. She told me yesterday and I quote again "I can tell in 10 minutes what someone is really like " oh ya, how about the past 30 guys, how did that happen? Any advice, crying shoulders, would be appreciated.