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I don't know what to do - I need some advice please
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<blockquote data-quote="jal" data-source="post: 534444" data-attributes="member: 3477"><p>Jo,</p><p></p><p>Do you think the wackier behavior over the years is due to pain medications? It certainly seems like it could be and I imagine she's on some heavy duty stuff. If she's having this involved of a surgery and then another one then she has been going through this pain I imagine for a long time. (I am no stranger to back surgery, had my first one at 14 for a ruptured disc, and other disc herniations myself and my mother in law had a fusion 2 yrs ago) and those sugeries are not ones that are a first line of defense in treating those problems.</p><p></p><p>Is it possible she is now putting up this wall because she is in great fear that it may not go the way she wants it to? That she still may be in debilitating pain or worse end up paralyzed and she doesn't want anyone to be too close until she knows the outcome?</p><p></p><p>I agree with others, send a card or flowers. Let her know you care, but give her the space she seems to desire now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jal, post: 534444, member: 3477"] Jo, Do you think the wackier behavior over the years is due to pain medications? It certainly seems like it could be and I imagine she's on some heavy duty stuff. If she's having this involved of a surgery and then another one then she has been going through this pain I imagine for a long time. (I am no stranger to back surgery, had my first one at 14 for a ruptured disc, and other disc herniations myself and my mother in law had a fusion 2 yrs ago) and those sugeries are not ones that are a first line of defense in treating those problems. Is it possible she is now putting up this wall because she is in great fear that it may not go the way she wants it to? That she still may be in debilitating pain or worse end up paralyzed and she doesn't want anyone to be too close until she knows the outcome? I agree with others, send a card or flowers. Let her know you care, but give her the space she seems to desire now. [/QUOTE]
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