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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 678473" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Bee, I am so sorry for your troubles, it is hard raising a child on your own. After reading your post, this thought has been gnawing at me in my gut all day, so I feel compelled to share it.</p><p>Please forgive me, but I have got to write this, but it is a huge possibility, they have had sex already, and were planning to the night you caught them.</p><p>Two of my girls were pregnant teens. I gave them the "talk" several times. They both told me that they were not "stupid" and promised me they would tell me if and when they wanted to be sexually active.</p><p>My second daughter went as far as to say "Don't you think I learned from my sisters mistake?" Obviously, she didn't.</p><p> Kids have sex at younger, and younger ages, <em>it is just what they do</em>. They find ways and one of them is to use whom ever's house where there is no parent home. I am not writing this to add to your troubles. Sometimes we cannot imagine that this would be, we cannot fathom our children turning into teens with sexual desires.</p><p> Candles, roses and alcohol are not meant for<em> just sleeping.</em></p><p>I hope I am wrong. But, odds are that it has happened.</p><p>One of your concerns has got to be if this girl is on any kind of birth control.</p><p>Also, if son is at home, and you are working, it would be <em>really easy</em> for his girlfriend to skip school and go over to the house during the day.</p><p>I am sorry, I hope you are not upset that I wrote this.</p><p>It is just the times we are living in, most kids this age are experimenting. Well heck, not just these times, it has been happening forever, even more so now.</p><p></p><p>Please forgive me for my straightforwardness. It would be a shame if this girl ended up pregnant, this would only add to your sons issues.........</p><p></p><p>Sincerely</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 678473, member: 19522"] Hi Bee, I am so sorry for your troubles, it is hard raising a child on your own. After reading your post, this thought has been gnawing at me in my gut all day, so I feel compelled to share it. Please forgive me, but I have got to write this, but it is a huge possibility, they have had sex already, and were planning to the night you caught them. Two of my girls were pregnant teens. I gave them the "talk" several times. They both told me that they were not "stupid" and promised me they would tell me if and when they wanted to be sexually active. My second daughter went as far as to say "Don't you think I learned from my sisters mistake?" Obviously, she didn't. Kids have sex at younger, and younger ages, [I]it is just what they do[/I]. They find ways and one of them is to use whom ever's house where there is no parent home. I am not writing this to add to your troubles. Sometimes we cannot imagine that this would be, we cannot fathom our children turning into teens with sexual desires. Candles, roses and alcohol are not meant for[I] just sleeping.[/I] I hope I am wrong. But, odds are that it has happened. One of your concerns has got to be if this girl is on any kind of birth control. Also, if son is at home, and you are working, it would be [I]really easy[/I] for his girlfriend to skip school and go over to the house during the day. I am sorry, I hope you are not upset that I wrote this. It is just the times we are living in, most kids this age are experimenting. Well heck, not just these times, it has been happening forever, even more so now. Please forgive me for my straightforwardness. It would be a shame if this girl ended up pregnant, this would only add to your sons issues......... Sincerely leafy [/QUOTE]
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