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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 418275" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I say "Yeah, husband"! He told the truth. He shared honest feelings and observations. He feels ignored and manipulated and used. Those are all valid emotional responses to the environment. Both difficult child and easy child could learn some valuable lessons. It is not good to hide how you truly feel. It is not healthy to internalize. Families share happy and sad feelings with one another. Pretending and stiflying are not healthy ways to deal with emotional pain. That is exactly what both girls evidently do on a regular basis by pretending everything is aok...but it's not. Role playing is not honest or healthy. I hope his honesty opens a new chapter in your home. It may lead to breakthroughs for all of you. I'm impressed. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 418275, member: 35"] I say "Yeah, husband"! He told the truth. He shared honest feelings and observations. He feels ignored and manipulated and used. Those are all valid emotional responses to the environment. Both difficult child and easy child could learn some valuable lessons. It is not good to hide how you truly feel. It is not healthy to internalize. Families share happy and sad feelings with one another. Pretending and stiflying are not healthy ways to deal with emotional pain. That is exactly what both girls evidently do on a regular basis by pretending everything is aok...but it's not. Role playing is not honest or healthy. I hope his honesty opens a new chapter in your home. It may lead to breakthroughs for all of you. I'm impressed. DDD [/QUOTE]
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