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I finally put my foot down. still in shock.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 696020" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with Lil.How is this different, SWOT, than what goneboy did. Making you jump through hoops? OK. With goneboy you knew somewhere inside you that you were losing. But with Bart, you know he loves you. It comes back to you, SWOT, what is it that keeps you from defending yourself? You have drawn a line. Good. But I believe we need to understand what in us keeps us accepting mistreatment.It is like my latest thread, and Lil asking, do you know why it is hard for you to stand up for yourself (to the young boss?) SWOT, you were called stupid (or words like that) and you learned to think about yourself as such. You have worked so hard believing in yourself.</p><p></p><p>Bart has to know how he is hurting you by these cruel and false words. That you accept it, (accepted it) from him, does not forgive it.</p><p></p><p>Really, I know how he must feel inside. He is hysterical. But if he cannot stop it you must stop him. No differently than if he was a toddler throwing a fit. Because it is.</p><p></p><p>I ask you to feel compassion, however, not for him. But for yourself. Take this vow with me. <em>Never, ever again shall we allow anybody to abuse us verbally without speaking out to call it what it is and to stop it. Right now.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 696020, member: 18958"] I agree with Lil.How is this different, SWOT, than what goneboy did. Making you jump through hoops? OK. With goneboy you knew somewhere inside you that you were losing. But with Bart, you know he loves you. It comes back to you, SWOT, what is it that keeps you from defending yourself? You have drawn a line. Good. But I believe we need to understand what in us keeps us accepting mistreatment.It is like my latest thread, and Lil asking, do you know why it is hard for you to stand up for yourself (to the young boss?) SWOT, you were called stupid (or words like that) and you learned to think about yourself as such. You have worked so hard believing in yourself. Bart has to know how he is hurting you by these cruel and false words. That you accept it, (accepted it) from him, does not forgive it. Really, I know how he must feel inside. He is hysterical. But if he cannot stop it you must stop him. No differently than if he was a toddler throwing a fit. Because it is. I ask you to feel compassion, however, not for him. But for yourself. Take this vow with me. [I]Never, ever again shall we allow anybody to abuse us verbally without speaking out to call it what it is and to stop it. Right now. [/I] [/QUOTE]
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