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I finally threw her out
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 744618" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi RP,</p><p></p><p>Welcome to our little corner of the world.</p><p></p><p>You sure have been through quite a bit. You have owned your part and that is a good thing.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Again, you have owned your part. You know you enable her and that is a huge thing to acknowledge. That is a step in the right direction. </p><p>Please don't be too hard on yourself. The way your daughter turned out is not totally on you. There are many parents here who raised their kids in a loving stable home and 2 of their kids turned out great and the 1 turned to drugs and crime.</p><p>There is no guarantee on how our kids will turn out. </p><p>Regardless of how your daughter was raised, she is an adult now. The choices she makes are hers and hers alone. You did the best you could and your parents also did the best they could.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The rest of your life should be lived for yourself. Your daughter is going to live her life the way she wants without any regard to you. The best thing you can do for her and yourself is to detach with love. Of course you will always love your daughter but you are not and should not be responsible for her.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you are here. Stay around and keep reading. You will gain much advice and strength.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you.........................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 744618, member: 18516"] Hi RP, Welcome to our little corner of the world. You sure have been through quite a bit. You have owned your part and that is a good thing. Again, you have owned your part. You know you enable her and that is a huge thing to acknowledge. That is a step in the right direction. Please don't be too hard on yourself. The way your daughter turned out is not totally on you. There are many parents here who raised their kids in a loving stable home and 2 of their kids turned out great and the 1 turned to drugs and crime. There is no guarantee on how our kids will turn out. Regardless of how your daughter was raised, she is an adult now. The choices she makes are hers and hers alone. You did the best you could and your parents also did the best they could. The rest of your life should be lived for yourself. Your daughter is going to live her life the way she wants without any regard to you. The best thing you can do for her and yourself is to detach with love. Of course you will always love your daughter but you are not and should not be responsible for her. I'm glad you are here. Stay around and keep reading. You will gain much advice and strength. ((HUGS)) to you......................... [/QUOTE]
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