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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 489724" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I really hope that some of what you do can help someone. I find all that you and difficult child have endured to be sickening. Truly sick enough to make me think of vomiting - it is just so wrong at every step.</p><p></p><p>As for help for you and difficult child, it might help for you to go to a domestic violence center and get something set up. you ARE a victim and these people are set up to handle that. I will warn you that many of the therapists will seem young to you. My experience has been good even though the counselor I saw was at most in her early 30s. She also didn't have kids yet, but she did work hard and when she wasn't sure what to do she went and asked for help and did research. I know she asked for help because she asked permission to talk to a couple of tdocs n the community. She didn't give my name to them but she wanted to use some specifics and didn't know f any of them would recognize us in the description so she got permission from me first. I liked that. She asked the 2 people I would have gone to, and one surely would have known who she was talking about because she had been our therapist for a long time previous to an insurance change.</p><p></p><p>It cannot hurt to give them a try. Most require indiv therapy before they do group therapy so that the person going into the group has a bit of a basis to start from. difficult child could join you after his release and that might be something that the PO would like because it would be help but not out of his budget. Or you don't even have to let PO know about it. in my opinion you need their help (DV center's) to deal with the emotional abuse heaped upon you and difficult child from the GAL, first PO's, and the entire system. DV help because those people came into your home and validated difficult child's abuse of you by telling him it was just fine and by interfering in your relationship with him.</p><p></p><p>Just a thought.</p><p></p><p>I do think this website may give valuable info. I hope you are keeping a log of each contact wtih the PO and csu people, etc... It would make a heck of a book, in my opinion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 489724, member: 1233"] I really hope that some of what you do can help someone. I find all that you and difficult child have endured to be sickening. Truly sick enough to make me think of vomiting - it is just so wrong at every step. As for help for you and difficult child, it might help for you to go to a domestic violence center and get something set up. you ARE a victim and these people are set up to handle that. I will warn you that many of the therapists will seem young to you. My experience has been good even though the counselor I saw was at most in her early 30s. She also didn't have kids yet, but she did work hard and when she wasn't sure what to do she went and asked for help and did research. I know she asked for help because she asked permission to talk to a couple of tdocs n the community. She didn't give my name to them but she wanted to use some specifics and didn't know f any of them would recognize us in the description so she got permission from me first. I liked that. She asked the 2 people I would have gone to, and one surely would have known who she was talking about because she had been our therapist for a long time previous to an insurance change. It cannot hurt to give them a try. Most require indiv therapy before they do group therapy so that the person going into the group has a bit of a basis to start from. difficult child could join you after his release and that might be something that the PO would like because it would be help but not out of his budget. Or you don't even have to let PO know about it. in my opinion you need their help (DV center's) to deal with the emotional abuse heaped upon you and difficult child from the GAL, first PO's, and the entire system. DV help because those people came into your home and validated difficult child's abuse of you by telling him it was just fine and by interfering in your relationship with him. Just a thought. I do think this website may give valuable info. I hope you are keeping a log of each contact wtih the PO and csu people, etc... It would make a heck of a book, in my opinion. [/QUOTE]
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