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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 215528" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>I've been on both sides of the fence with this issue. My first husband would drop his kids off on me, take off with his brother to do whatever, and then get PO'd about something I did or didn't do. I couldn't win. We divorced after 18 months. </p><p></p><p>My second husband was Miss KT's father. I was a single parent even though we were married. Dumped Useless Boy, case closed.</p><p></p><p>Hubby is "third time's the charm", though he doesn't understand parenting a difficult child. It has not been an easy 8 years, but he wanted so much to do the right thing for both me and Miss KT that we were able to work things out. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like you and boyfriend are not on the same page with anything regarding B. However, he's not your kid. You can state your opinions, but you can't make any real changes unless his father allows it, whether you are married or not. The only person you can make decisions about is you. Is this how you want to live your life?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 215528, member: 4040"] I've been on both sides of the fence with this issue. My first husband would drop his kids off on me, take off with his brother to do whatever, and then get PO'd about something I did or didn't do. I couldn't win. We divorced after 18 months. My second husband was Miss KT's father. I was a single parent even though we were married. Dumped Useless Boy, case closed. Hubby is "third time's the charm", though he doesn't understand parenting a difficult child. It has not been an easy 8 years, but he wanted so much to do the right thing for both me and Miss KT that we were able to work things out. It sounds like you and boyfriend are not on the same page with anything regarding B. However, he's not your kid. You can state your opinions, but you can't make any real changes unless his father allows it, whether you are married or not. The only person you can make decisions about is you. Is this how you want to live your life? [/QUOTE]
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