Because of husband being gone a bunch of times... all of the BS. The violence etc. I actually have not been anywhere by myself since before N was born, 4 years! husband told me to go somewhere... just go. Because I am grumpy, tired all of it. Sunday I am taking off up to Whitefish, MT!!! Come home Tuesday. The drive is SO beautiful... anyone want to join me, I know short notice! I am seriously, going to sit outside, read, sleep, walk... I have one whole day to myself. One night and morning. 2 nights... Ahhh. I really need this right know, before his family comes to visit and the move. Room has internet... and hotel has a restaraunt..