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I got the warrant in the mail today
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 224914" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Bran, I'm trying to look at it like this- if you chose to enable (or did it unknowingly) she would get a lot worse than this and hurt the family and herself a lot more before hitting bottom and maybe trying to get help- and it would be harder for her to get help. This way, it gives her a better chance of hitting bottom sooner rather than later and she's still so young, it might not be easy but it won't be as hard to get help in the near future as it will be 10 or 20 years down the road.</p><p></p><p>Now, I do realize that it's pretty easy for me to say that- I'm not walking in your shoes and my son hasn't gotten that age or left home and doing these things yet, so I say it and mean it but with the understanding that I don't know if I could stand going thru that much tough love or not. But, I do think you're doing the right thing. And, it is good that you could probably get some help to find her or get a message to her if some major emergency came up and you chose to. And, it appears that one of these friends could get a message to you if she got seriously injured or something.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 224914, member: 3699"] Bran, I'm trying to look at it like this- if you chose to enable (or did it unknowingly) she would get a lot worse than this and hurt the family and herself a lot more before hitting bottom and maybe trying to get help- and it would be harder for her to get help. This way, it gives her a better chance of hitting bottom sooner rather than later and she's still so young, it might not be easy but it won't be as hard to get help in the near future as it will be 10 or 20 years down the road. Now, I do realize that it's pretty easy for me to say that- I'm not walking in your shoes and my son hasn't gotten that age or left home and doing these things yet, so I say it and mean it but with the understanding that I don't know if I could stand going thru that much tough love or not. But, I do think you're doing the right thing. And, it is good that you could probably get some help to find her or get a message to her if some major emergency came up and you chose to. And, it appears that one of these friends could get a message to you if she got seriously injured or something. [/QUOTE]
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