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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 688669" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Hi Lil, another fork in the road, you are dealing with, and trying to figure out what to do.</p><p></p><p>Suggestion: Ask him to call and check on the apartment, and to get an answer (whatever the answer is, even we don't know) by Friday. Tell him you and Jabber are trying to make your own plans. </p><p></p><p>If he doesn't let you know by Friday what the apartment person said, then you make the call.</p><p></p><p>I think letting them have a chance to do the task, and giving them a reasonable (key word here) deadline, is key. Then, if they don't do it, and it affects us, and we want/need to know, then we step in.</p><p></p><p>If they get mad, they get mad. </p><p></p><p>The big issue is really not when the apartment is ready, it doesn't sound like. It's what you and Jabber decided about when he is moving out. Also, I wouldn't imagine you will want him paying for the apartment, which I would imagine they will expect payment, and not living there? </p><p></p><p>I know this stuff is hard. Isn't it amazing that what seems like a simple task that all people in life deal with becomes a Herculean task when it comes to our DCs? It's loaded with all kinds of baggage.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. At least he has some kind of job right now. At least presumably the apartment will be ready sooner rather than later. Perhaps if he knows it is happening soon he will go out and get some temporary labor or additional work to raise a few hundred $$ to get the first bills paid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 688669, member: 17542"] Hi Lil, another fork in the road, you are dealing with, and trying to figure out what to do. Suggestion: Ask him to call and check on the apartment, and to get an answer (whatever the answer is, even we don't know) by Friday. Tell him you and Jabber are trying to make your own plans. If he doesn't let you know by Friday what the apartment person said, then you make the call. I think letting them have a chance to do the task, and giving them a reasonable (key word here) deadline, is key. Then, if they don't do it, and it affects us, and we want/need to know, then we step in. If they get mad, they get mad. The big issue is really not when the apartment is ready, it doesn't sound like. It's what you and Jabber decided about when he is moving out. Also, I wouldn't imagine you will want him paying for the apartment, which I would imagine they will expect payment, and not living there? I know this stuff is hard. Isn't it amazing that what seems like a simple task that all people in life deal with becomes a Herculean task when it comes to our DCs? It's loaded with all kinds of baggage. Hang in there. At least he has some kind of job right now. At least presumably the apartment will be ready sooner rather than later. Perhaps if he knows it is happening soon he will go out and get some temporary labor or additional work to raise a few hundred $$ to get the first bills paid. [/QUOTE]
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