My son was supposed to go to Florida with his best friend this week. husband and I were taking full advantage and going to Gatlinburg for three nights - we have already paid the first night and we are leaving Thursday. My friend/neighbor (son's best friend's mom who is also a very good friend of mine) called me this morning to tell me they are probably not going to Florida. She found out this morning that her husband's brother and brother's wife were killed in a motorcycle accident over the weekend in California. She had to go home to tell her husband. She told me her husband will fly out to California alone and that my son was more than welcome to stay with them at their house this weekend anyway. She knew we had planned this mini trip. But what do I do?? husband and I really need this time away and alone, especially after the drama this weekend. We were so looking forward to this. But I feel bad sending my son over there while we go on our trip after her brother in law passed away... Thoughts?