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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 358366" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Well, I'm with you Janet. I've agreed to let Youngest (now 32 weeks pregnant), her fiance, and my grandson "stay" with me for a few weeks, in my brand new (to me) townhouse. The reason, her fiance messed around with job prospects and only JUST found a job (don't even get me started on my feelings on that), their lease is up at the end of May and they have nowhere to go, and she's sick and pregnant (the pregnancy continues to be very difficult for her). I'm doing this for my grandson more than anything, to be sure he has a reasonably stable and safe place to live. I've written up a contract with expectations, and they've agreed. The good news is, Youngest doesn't want it any more than I do, and I suspect they truly will only be there a short time, i.e., until fiance gets a paycheck or two under his belt and they can put down a security deposit on an apartment. She's cleaner than I am these days, and I'm pretty sure she'll keep things neat. Having grandson there is actually my biggest stressor.. I've grown used to the quiet of living alone ... but I'm telling myself I can live with anything for a month. It had better be no more than a month.</p><p></p><p>We all have to do what we think is best for our situation. I know that you've probably thought through every possible contingency and consequence before making this decision. Sending strength and hugs <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 358366, member: 1157"] Well, I'm with you Janet. I've agreed to let Youngest (now 32 weeks pregnant), her fiance, and my grandson "stay" with me for a few weeks, in my brand new (to me) townhouse. The reason, her fiance messed around with job prospects and only JUST found a job (don't even get me started on my feelings on that), their lease is up at the end of May and they have nowhere to go, and she's sick and pregnant (the pregnancy continues to be very difficult for her). I'm doing this for my grandson more than anything, to be sure he has a reasonably stable and safe place to live. I've written up a contract with expectations, and they've agreed. The good news is, Youngest doesn't want it any more than I do, and I suspect they truly will only be there a short time, i.e., until fiance gets a paycheck or two under his belt and they can put down a security deposit on an apartment. She's cleaner than I am these days, and I'm pretty sure she'll keep things neat. Having grandson there is actually my biggest stressor.. I've grown used to the quiet of living alone ... but I'm telling myself I can live with anything for a month. It had better be no more than a month. We all have to do what we think is best for our situation. I know that you've probably thought through every possible contingency and consequence before making this decision. Sending strength and hugs :) [/QUOTE]
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